Introducing Hiro to our home cats - Day 7

Decided to let Hiro meet with Ocean and Nala face to face. ....but with tight supervision.

That room is Hiro ' s room. And I'm holding Hiro tightly as he seems to be very eager to wanna approach Nala and Ocean.

Surprisingly Ocean suddenly came over and walked past us, entering into Hiro ' s room. I'm not sure if that is a good thing, but no hissing from Hiro and Ocean, so I'm taking that as a positive progress. :)

With Ocean in the room , I carried Hiro out and let him stay put on a side , so that Ocean has a larger space to exit the room , and also Hiro has a better view of both Nala and Ocean.

After a while, Ocean decided to leave the room and sit down at the hall, 3 feet beside Nala. Both of them seems at ease and relaxed :)

I kept holding Hiro all the time, and after a while we decided to call it for a day.

We plan to continue with this exercise for the rest of the week, before letting them get Contact and sniff each other at freely.

Here is a Video taken from outside of the room of Hiro.

https://youtu.be/bm8qmB58M3M

Introducing Hiro to our home cats - Day 6

I decided to post the progress of introducing our new 1 year old cat, Hiro, to our house cats Nala (8 yrs) and Ocean (9 yrs).

For the past few days, hiro was left in our study room with water , food, sandbox and toys available to him.

They only interact thru the small opening from the bottom of the door.

The first few days saw some hissing from Ocean. And occasionally Nala too.

On the 3rd day, Hiro peed on my pants and due to some stupid thing that I did, that odor get transfered to the entire house. This eventually made Ocean very unhappy, and he made a lot of hissing and angry sounds, which later on attacked me (well...actually my foot).
I guess the urine smell of Hiro on my leg wasn't very pleasant and comfortable to him.

The hissing gets lesser for the past 2 days. And last nite, we didn't hear a single hiss.

This morning I decided to take it a small step further. As usual I fed ocean and nala right in front of the study room, and then proceed on to feeding Hiro in the study. But today, I decided to leave the study room open while feeding so that 3 of them have the chance to look at each other.

Everything seems cool. They have that stare at first, but continued on eating. I decided not to push thing too fast, and so I closed the door and let them eat separately after a while.

After having my breakfast, I tried something new again. Sitting behind thr study room door, I opened the door, but stopped it and maintained the opening at a very small space, just enough for them to see each other and have their paws thru.

Ocean doesn't seem to be very interested. Nala seems very keen. He kept peeping and trying to push open the door. Hiro seems very excited and ran towards the door. Nala .... I think....he didn't anticipated for that sudden surprise, and made a huge hissing sound and some paw punching. Hiro backed off 3 steps and looked confused. And after a while hiro calmed himself, sits down, and keep watching at Nala.

They both watched each other for quite some time, with occasionally Nala making some strange sound (not hissing) and hiro chirping.

Eventually Hiro went back to his playground and was happy again playing with his toys. I decided to call it a day.

I personally see that as a good progress. Its the same in pur lifes.
Some see Conflicts as a negative thing. I choose to view conflict as something positive.
Conflict exists because there is a disagreement between a communication of 2.
If there is no conflict, it doesn't mean that the disagreement isn't there. It just means that the problem is simple swept under the rug.
When there is communication , there is a chance for resolving the disagreement. the process might or might not be a pleasant one, but at least, there is a chance for resolving the disagreement. That is the first step to peeling of the problem one at a time.

What makes you feel alive?

No I  am not talking about breathing or eating. I'm referring to something in life that when you do, makes you feel like..... you are a human, you are made of flesh and blood, and you are..... alive.
For me, I feel most alive when I'm feeding my emotional hunger.

I don't know about most people, but when I
- when i watch a sad/touching  movie, I grieve and cry
- when I spent time with my loved ones, I feel content
- when I interact with animals and feel them, I feel warmth
- when I see other living creatures suffer, I feel pain.

All these emotions makes me feel alive.
It always gives me a temporary break from my usually numbed senses (you know what I'm talking if you are working in a large multi national coorperate).

People closed to me always say that I'm negative. But no. I'm always seeking those feeling from watching sad/touching movies, or listening to touchy songs because I want to trigger those senses which reminds me that I'm still flesh and blood, I still have a soul, and most importantly, I'm still alive.

And for others, I can't tell you to do the same thing. Everyone has different things that they need to feed themselves so that they feel alive. For me it's mostly the emotional triggers. You will have to find it out for yourself what is it that really makes you feel alive.

And once you have found it, never ever trade anything else in exchange for it. Protect it with thick moat, make sure that any other parts of your life style never penetrate that moat. Every now and then, revisit those activities so that it reminds us that, despite the fact that we are drawn and drown into all the insensitive and numb daily activities of the corporate world, that we still have a soul, that we are still flesh and blood, and we are still alive.

Bye bye 2014, Hello 2015

Man, I couldn't really remember when  was the last time I blogged. It was like, writing blogs have been a very far far away thing to me now.....

Recalling back on the December's of every year, it has come to the time again to
- reflect on the accomplishment for the year
- and set new goals for the next.

2014
Looking back at the year , it has really been a year full of activities for me.
- it started all the way back from Oct 2013, where I could no longer take the heavy beating of being a people manager, and found a way out to a new company as an individual contributor (IC) once again.
- yeah I admit it. I was actually finding an easy way out instead of facing courageously at the problem at hand. But , having going thru weeks of abdominal cramps,  and later on succumb to sleepless vomitting nights made me clearly notice that I'm definitely not built for this.
- programming life at baysand was wonderful. No bureaucracy, no policies. Everything just got done so fast and so immediate. You don't need to write a 40 page functional spec just to come up with a new nightly built program, because There is only one customer (the tech lead).
- I got to learn a while ton of stuff. I got to own 2 eda tools (crossfire from fractal tech) and (Schematic porting tool from Muneda )
- this gave me the invaluable experience of not only how to deal with vendors , but also the way how a vendor should threat their customers
- I have the opportunity to get myself to extensively work on gnu Make, where I built a nightly regression tool for the company using crossfire, perl and Make.
- I gave up my martial art training (aikido and WingChun) due to my long working hours
- I changed my exercise time to 6am every morning, sleeping only for less than 6 hrs a day, sometimes even lesser
- I joined back my old company (Altera) in 5th May 2014 on condition that I'll be spared from being a people mamager. And once again I'm back at the python camp.
- I'm once again at the extreme end of the spectrum where everything that u do needs to go thru 726 levels of approval, and any code u write will never get materialized until u write the function spec for it.
- Im lunky enough to be able to work with some people from real software background
- and this changed my perspective towards a lot of things
- I have more respect and appreciation o  the things that I once despise ( functional specs and design patterns)
- I understand now that no matter where u work (be it a startup or old fart company), politics is always there to stay. You just can't change it.  The only thing that u can change .....is only your perspective towards each event, and how to react to it.
- with the experience I have gone thru, dealing with people from big companies, as well as CTO from a startup company, I'm more well versed in the language that people in company speak. (But I've got to admit that until today, I'm still not equipped with the balls of steel myionir of Thor to iron thru all this political shit as a people manager. )
- I found a new idol in the late 2014, joel spolfsky. And plan to read all of his blog posts.
- I started changing back my lifestyle to exercise during lunch, and have 7 hrs of sleep a day. And I now can think better and meditate more efficiently, thus keeping my stress level under constant check.
- our lovely poodle Zizi left us .
- then Dino followed...
- and then Simba joined them (kidney failure, stopped eating , then he suffered organs failure eventually)

- we finally changed our almost 10year old sofa, and also added a sofa style rocking chair 

- bee ee and entire family visited us in Penang in October.

- Danielle's family (parents and brother's family) visited us in Penang during Christmas.

- me , danielle and ming got ourselves a Samsung Note3. it was me and Danielle's first andriod device.

2015
- I will once again pick up wing chun seriously.
- my all time financial goal of being financially free by 2015 doesn't seem to be very likely. I will work extra hard and closely towards my extended goal of being financially free by 2020.

- continue to be more versatile in my career, technicallwise as well as soft skilled wise.

Stock Investment Checklist

This post serves as a reminder to myself every time before I want to invest in any of potential stocks.

0. is it profitable?

1. where is the moat?

2. where is the growth?

3. is debt acceptable?

4. is it selling at a margin of safety price?

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0. PROFITABILITY

a few financial metrics that needs to be consistent:-

- ROE

- ROA

- ROIC

- net margin

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1. MOAT

Brand

- a product you are willing to pay more (coke, nike, mcd)

Secret

- patent or trade secret that makes direct competition illegal or very difficult (3M, Pfizer, Intel)

Toll

- exclusive control of a market (media companies, utilities, ad agency)

Switching

- product that's too much hassle/expensive that doesn't worth switching (msft, paycheck, )

Price

- product price is so low that no competitor can compete (walmart, Home Depot, bed bath beyond)

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2. GROWTH

determines where of the growth is coming from for the company.....

- gaining more market shares

- introducing new product (eg:- Apple)

- strong brand name thru rising price (eg:- coke)

- thru acquisition (eg:- Walmart )

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3. DEBT

make sure that the company is taking debt which is repayable within a few years.

a good rule of thumb is:- 

     long term debt / net income < 5 years

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4. MOS

- calculate the market value of the company using discounted FCF or EPS:- https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1-_63EUyhIF6QEenH_HRxkHTo-3RlxqDpQjb_pfi1q4Y/edit?usp=docslist_api

- buy only if it is trading at a price which gives an acceptable CAGR and MOS.

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Living In The Present

I really love this well explained and written blog.

http://paidtoexist.com/how-to-live-fully-in-the-present/

Here are the take away points:-

why it's difficult to live in the present

because we never shut up. 

if we are constantly talking, we never hear what anyone else has to say.

likewise, if we are talking to ourselves all the time, we are never listening.

5 ways to live in the present

1. don't try to quiet your mind, just witness it.

2. you are not your thoughts.

3. breathe.

4. meditate

5. practice mindfulness.

The Secret: Law Of Attraction

dAnything that you think will become real. The thoughts doesn't know how to differentiate between positive and negative. It only understands the thoughts and we feed it.
- if we keep thinking we don't wanna be poor, then we will become poor
- if we think we wanna become rich, we will become rich.
So..... feed your mind with the things that u wanna achieve.
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Emotion controls our thoughts.
When we r feeling down, immediately put on a beautiful piece of music. Start singing. Think of something beautiful or someone we love. REALLY keep that thought in mind.
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ASK

Be very sure and clear on what you want.

BELIEVE

Believe that we have received the thing. don't doubt ourselves. How are we going to achieve it is non of our concern. That should be left for the universe to run its course.

RECEIVE

Feel the actual emotion when u really have achieved the goal. Emotion, and feeling. Important.

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Start each day/events by pre-visualizing all positive possible details/outcomes, have a great emotional state!!!

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DAILY GRATITUDE

Aaa

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A lot of people strives hard for great home, lots of money, and all these outer things in life. but all these outer things doesn't necessary guarantees what people really want, which is happiness. People goes for those outer things thinking that it's gonna bring them happiness, but in fact it's backwards. We need to go for the inner joy, inner peace, the inner vision first, and then all of the outer things appear.

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we must change our focus and begin to think about all the things that are wonderful about us. look for the positive in you! you attract what you think. all we have to do is begin with one prolonged though of something good about You, and the law of attraction will respond by giving you more like thoughts.

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